| About 20 years passed after we resigned from the New Life
Center and even though we were no longer involved in that
type of ministry, we never forgot about the many Hmong
orphans and poor children living in the mountains in
need of help. Our intention to work with an orphanage
never left our minds even when we got involved in
business for a number of years until the passing of
our beloved son, "Piyawat", on the 10 March
of 2008. It was then that we decided to return to the
ministry of caring for orphans once again.
Let me share with you about Piyawat. "Piyawat"
was our youngest son. He was born in 2006 with birth
defects that caused him to be unable to breathe on his
own. His lungs were weak which required continual dependency
on a respirator to help him breathe. He was not even able to
get out of bed and walk. He spent the remainder of his
life in the hospital, never coming home. Every day we,
along with our daughter and son went to visit him at
the hospital which was a long drive from our home
(about 20 kilometers). We would go to the hospital
by motorcycle and minibus.
I remember one day going on business in another
province and my wife, Chuleeporn, drove the motorcycle
to visit Piyawat at the hospital. It was evening and
she was so lonely. At that time the rain was very
heavy. She got lost and called me weeping and so
upset. In spite of this we never lost heart in
taking care of our beloved son at the hospital
because we loved him so much! Then on March 10th,
2008 God opened His arms and took our beloved
Piyawat to Heaven. He was just 1 year, 7 months
and 22 days old.
After Piyawat passed away it reminded my family
and my 2 younger brothers, Manop and Wichai that life
is very beautiful and every person is very valuable,
especially the Hmong orphans in the mountains!
They need help! They need to have a better life
and better opportunities. For example, they need
3 meals a day, a suitable home, good health and
most importantly, have a chance to go school.
Let me describe the circumstances of the Hmong in
Thailand. The Hmong are one of the ethnic groups
of Thailand. But most Thai people, even some Thai
officers, see them only as hill tribe. "Hill tribe"
in Thai is a word meaning "others" not "us".
This meant that the Hmong are different from the Thai
lowlanders leading to discrimination against them.
That's why many Hmong boys and girls do not have
the opportunity to go school and do not have a
good quality of life like the Thai lowlanders.
We are Hmong people and we are very proud of
our ethnicity. We believe that if we can help
any Hmong orphans have a better life then we
feel we are doing something special for our
dearest son and nephew, Piyawat
Thus after our dearest son Piyawat passed away
we founded the "Piyawat Orphan House"
on 4th June 2008. We believe that God will see
our good intentions and bless our hands in this
ministry. There are 24 Hmong orphans at the orphanage
right now. We believed that it is God's will
to use our lives to be a blessing to these orphans.
We love them as our own children.
I have talked with some of the orphans about
their lives before came to the orphanage. They told
me that since he/she was born, he/she have never
seen his/her father and mother. Hence he/she never
had anyone to call "father" and "mother". I
told the children that now that they are here,
they can call me "father", Chuleeporn "mother"
and Manop and Wichai "uncle". They said that now
they are very happy and feel warmth in their hearts
because now they have a father, mother and uncle
like other children.
There are a couple of the orphans who told me that
they never had enough food for 3 meals in a day
because they lived with their grandmother who
must work for wages in the fields from morning
into the night. So some days they had no food
for lunch and when night came they went to sleep
with the dog in a corner of the house without a
dinner. They probably felt safer by sleeping beside
the dog since it's so frightening when it's dark.
I cannot explain the feeling but it is very heartening
when you see the expression in their eyes when they
have food every day, a place to live, and an
opportunity to go school like Thai lowlanders and
then have them call you 'father', 'mother', 'uncle' and 'aunt'.
Thank you God for my beloved son 'Piyawat' who taught
me the meaning of life. No one forces us to do this
work and we know that this job provides no income.
I used to be a business man and see that money
is very important while you are in this world.
But now we welcome the opportunity to dedicate
ourselves to be God's servants and we are willing
and happy to do this work.
I hope that my effort in
communicating these stories will inspire people to
care for the orphans in need. Whatever you can do
to support our ministry will be greatly appreciated!
Preecha Chaocharoen and family. |